We sent out probably around fifty Christmas cards this year, a few less than previous years. We’ve received somewhere around fifteen cards, which are taped to our mantle as a festive decoration. There’s something so joyful about getting a personal note in the mail, isn’t there?
As our society has delved deeper into the cyber world, one of its casualties seems to be the art of sending a personal note. Many find it very acceptable to send a brief text or email, not even a phone call as a means of expressing gratitude or congratulations, etc. While this certainly is a nice gesture and a small time expense, it cannot replace the personal touch of hearing someone’s voice or receiving a handwritten note.
A written correspondence lasts for years and years, while texts and emails have a limited shelf life. I have some old cards and letters from thirty years ago! I cherish reading through them from time to time. They remind me of those family and friends that may have passed on and the love we shared. That is something I value.
I owe my great aunt a great deal when it comes to my affection for letter writing. She would often write her sister (my grandmother) who lived with us when I was growing up. When she became unable to compose letters for herself, I would ask my grandmother what she would like to say and I would write them out for her. She was fifteen years older than my great aunt. They enjoyed sharing the news of various friends and the happenings of their church. As the years passed, I took over writing the exchange of letters and they were simply from me, sharing what was happening at school and within our family. I always looked forward to that letter addressed to me with great anticipation! As an adult, letters still excite me! There’s nothing less fulfilling than receiving a card with just a signature. Write something! What’s going on in your world? People love details! Tell them all about it!
Each year we enclose a family newsletter with our Christmas cards and a few years ago, I just decided not to send one out, thinking, first of all, it was too much effort. Secondly, that perhaps that the letter didn’t matter much. After that, I had many family members say how much they looked forward to our newsletter each year and they missed reading it! Lesson learned. Everyone enjoys receiving news from loved ones far and near.
I think it’s one of the greatest arts we can teach our children and those around us. Letter writing may be a dying art but not one beyond exhumation. Sending a note is like putting a stamp on love and affection and giving it away. Its effects cannot be underestimated for you never know how much it will mean to the recipient.
Why not drop someone you love or admire a note today?
Even if you’re not the best speller or possess the most artistic handwriting, anyone can compose a nice note. No intricate internet code can ever replace the human touch, the human voice and the handwritten note. No man was ever designed to be an island to himself. Reach out. Let someone know they’ve made a difference in your life or choose to make a difference in someone else’s life.
Here’s to more personal letters, notes and cards in 2017!
What say you?